For many it's now time to file the FAFSA for the 2017-2018 school year. Have you started yet?
I remember back in the day filing my kids FAFSA via a paper
copy and sending it through the mail and having to wait forever to get the
results back. Now the system is way better with online submissions, using prior-prior taxes, and having help file thru the Iowa College Access Network! My oldest son
headed off to a Regent school while my youngest enrolled at a private school.
Both schools were a perfect fit for their individual needs, goals, and career
aspirations.
The hardest part of the college process for me as a parent was
dropping them off at the doorstep of their dorms for the first time. I had so
many unanswered questions. Are they going to like their roommate, how will they
do with their new found freedom, will they actually study and get out of bed
for class? Students need to realize that it’s tough on Mom & Dad too! On
that first college drop off day, your parents will want to help you get settled
into your new space. Let them! Once
you’ve unpacked and get your room organized, take them out for lunch/dinner. It
will make everyone feel more comfortable when you say good-bye. As a parent, it definitely takes some time to
readjust to not having them at home but eventually it gets better. Students, be
sure to keep in touch with your family, parents will love to get a
text/call/facetime whenever you need a boost or just need to talk!
Have fun with the college process, you’ve done your part in preparing
your student thus far, so now it’s time to sit back-relax, and watch them take
the next step in their lives.
Cindy
ICAN Hiawatha Center
ICAN Hiawatha Center
